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I want to know how girls feel about shaving their nether regions. I was talking to my boyfriend last night about how I shave my crotch because I want to- I like how I look and feel better without pubic hair. I assumed he preferred women without pubic hair (as past boyfriends have told me) but he told me he wouldn't care either way. He told me that other girls he's talked to shave for the men in their lives. Do you shave? if so, why or why not?
vaginastuff vaginastuff Said:

I think it’s true that many women* shave because of societal pressure or pressure from their partners. However, many people prefer being unshaven or being with someone unshaven! Ultimately, it’s your body and your choice. If you and your partner decide to save for each other, that’s cool too, just make sure it’s consensual! Communication is the most important thing in regards to sex and/or relationships, so talking about your preferences is a good way to start.

Personally, it varies for me. Sometimes I enjoy shaving, and other times I like to be razor-free for a couple months. 

Anyone else wanna chime in?! :)

-Taylor

  1. onside-b said: I think men who are overly concerned with your vagina being completely shaven are being a bit silly. My partner doesn’t care either way and I love that. I choose to wax because it makes me feel fresher but I wouldn’t want to be forced to.
  2. thesexkittenconfessionals said: When I was younger I thought I would never ever let a guy see me unshaven ever because “omg ew hair and he’ll think I’m gross”. My lover doesn’t care either way though, so I’ve become more comfortable with it and I’m pretty much always natural now.
  3. belleinherbones said: my skin’s too sensitive for ANYTHING: shaving, waxing, nairing, etc. etc. I can do the little bits that extend on my leg but nothing else. and honestly I don’t care…I personally feel like a 6 year old when I shave.
  4. liloth said: i used to shave everything and thought it was a personal preference, then realised i was basically just doing it because i thought i was supposed to. now i don’t shave at all. my boyfriend is really into it, and if he wasn’t i wouldn’t be into him
  5. bettydevoid said: I am usually lazy when it comes to shaving, but I do like how I look and feel when I am shaven.
  6. softcastle-mccormick said: I love to shave! I’ve actually been clean shaven down there since it started growing and I didn’t have anyone to show it to. It just feels good and makes me feel fresh.
  7. maggiefisher said: I actually just had this conversation with my boyfriend! Personally I always thought guys preferred it hairless (which I hate, because it’s itchy and I’m lazy) but apparently he doesn’t mind (it’s not much different says he), which means fur for me!
  8. stijy said: I like shaving and I like my guy to shave as well. His moods about shaving himself go back and forth but he doesn’t care what I do. We both aren’t overly concerned with what the other does with their own body.
  9. temerei said: I never shave, not anywhere on my body. When my current boyfriend and I started going out on a couple dates, and he first saw me naked, he wasn’t uncomfortable with it. We talked more about it and we’re both comfortable with each other’s body hair.
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