The first thing to remember is that there’s no “wrong” way to masturbate. Even if you don’t have an orgasm or cum, it still doesn’t make it “wrong!” 

The point of masturbation is to connect with your body and feel pleasure. The best advice I can give to you is to:

• Find a place where you won’t be disturbed for awhile. The bathroom, your bedroom, wherever. 
• Secondly, you need to be able to relax. If you’re stressed about what might or might not happen, it’s just not going to be any fun! 
• Some people watch porn, light candles, turn on music, or simply think or talk to themselves about things that turn them on. If you don’t know which is your thing, try a few of them! You might be surprised.
• As far as your body goes, touch wherever you think it might be fun to touch. You can imagine that someone else is touching you, too! Just remember that you need to wash your hands before going back to your vagina if you’ve been doing any kind of anal play. There’s nothing less fun than a UTI or other infections!

Last but not least, enjoy yourself. Exploration is key. You’ll never know what you like until you try it. So try it! 

As always, have fun and be safe. 

-Taylor

EDIT: 

internetwinnage replied to your post:

also, you shouldn’t feel pressured to masturbate. Do it because you want to! If it turns out you don’t really like masturbating, that’s fine too!